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Now on DVD: The Mocha Manual to a Fabulous Pregnancy

2008-04-14T10:10:00.007-04:00

We're so happy to tell you that The Mocha Manual to a Fabulous Pregnancy will be available on DVD starting tomorrow, 4/15, at Wal-Mart stores across the country. This is such great news for moms. Visit MochaManual.com for more details and to watch the trailer. Be sure to pass the word.

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Can "Bitter" Come Back to Bite Obama?

2008-04-13T17:38:00.003-04:00

By now, you've probably heard about the "bitter" comment Obama made about working class Pennsylvanians last week. If you haven't yet, you can read and hear it over at the Huffington Post.

The Clinton campaign wasted no time pouncing on Obama's apparent gaffe by taking aim at his perceived lack of sensitivity to working class Americans. Hillary Clinton even went so far as to down a shot of Crown Royal whiskey with Indiana locals and touted her experience shooting ducks to exemplify how in touch she is with average, everyday Americans. This brazen pandering prompted the New York Times to wonder since when did Hillary become a pro-gun churchgoer.

Meanwhile, according to the latest Gallup Daily tracking poll, Obama still holds a sizable lead among the nation's Democrats -- 50% to 41%.

Obama Gets Tough on Parents

2008-04-13T00:48:00.004-04:00

"Parents if you don't parent, we can't improve our schools," he said. "You've got to parent. You've got to turn off the television set in your house once in a while, you've got to put the video game away once in a while." -- Barack Obama.

Hear, Hear!

More on The Root.

As a side note: Who else is getting tired of this Democratic race to the nomination? We wish the process would hurry up and end because we all know there is no way the nomination can be taken away from Obama. So why is someone (who shall remain nameless) wasting the country's time and energy? We don't get it.

Weak Wives or Strong Women?

2008-03-10T15:51:00.005-04:00

When male politicians get caught with their pants down, like New York Governor Eliot Spitzer today, or Detroit Mayor Kwame Kilpatrick or even Bill Clinton for that matter, why is it then that they roll out their wives with pearls on and tailored suits? Are wives this weak?

If you found out that your husband was involved in a porn ring, would you stand by his side to show a united political front or tell him to face the music himself and pack his bags when he comes home?

This scene is so tired, ladies. Why do women always have to be carted out to prove some sort of "solid" marriage when clearly it isn't.

Speak, ladies!

We Smell Impending Voter Fraud. Do you?

2008-03-10T01:09:00.005-04:00

We don't quite know what it is about the Sunshine State, but something ain't right down there as far as elections are concerned. If Florida would have had everything straight eight years ago we would be saying President Al Gore instead of living painfully through eight years of George Bush!

That said, Florida and now Michigan, find themselves in the middle of a hectic and increasingly ugly race between Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton to 2,025 delegates for the Democratic nomination.

Now... between us...we believe if Senator Clinton had the pledge delegate lead by now we wouldn't hear anything about Florida and Michigan, but that's just us!

So, this morning we heard Florida and Michigan are leaning towards a redo vote where citizens send in their ballot via snail mail. Can you say potential VOTER FRAUD? Somebody stop this before it happens. Al Sharpton...where are you?

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Broadway's Black Mother: Eisa Davis

2008-03-08T10:20:00.006-05:00

There is a fantastic article about portraying black motherhood on Broadway in today's New York Times. Eisa Davis plays Mother in the musical "Passing Strange."

The character of Mother was appealing, she said, because she is a departure from the all-knowing, long-suffering black-mother stereotype. "This mother character is not the magical Negro at all," said Ms. Davis. "She is flawed, she is selfish, she is trying to live by the rules and is being squashed by them and has put all of her dreams into this child, and of course he can't fulfill them."

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Photo credit: Ozier Muhammad/ New York Times

Meet Our Newest Partner: Divine Caroline

2008-02-21T10:58:00.004-05:00

Share a story. Find an answer. Make a connection.

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The DivineCaroline community is an active, supportive one. So please come and see what we have to offer. Registration is fast and free. Hope to see you soon at DivineCaroline.com.

Weight Matters, Multivitamins for Expectant Moms, Postpartum Depression,

2008-02-20T07:28:00.005-05:00

Did you know that how you look determines how much you'll earn? Find out why it's important to look your best.

What's New Today on MommyToo.com

Do you think breastfeeding mothers should breastfeed their children at their child's school? Weigh in on the issue.

African-American mothers are often prone to postpartum depression. See why.

Choosing a multivitamin is important for any expectant mother. Discover what you need for a healthy pregnancy.

Save a Gaiam, the marketplace for all natural products.

Go Veggie, Maternity Pants Suits, Computer Health, Breastfeeding in Public In Front of Kids, Save at Avon

2008-02-18T14:27:00.007-05:00

With the largest beef recall in American history making news today we're thinking hard about going veggie once and for all because we know meat isn't optimal for great health, plus how can we trust meat suppliers who slaughter cows that can't walk. If you're already a vegetarian or vegan, how did you do it?

What's New on MommyToo.com Today?

It's always important to have a healthy computer. Join us all week to share tips to keep your family computer from getting sick.

Would you breastfeed your baby at your older child's elementary school. We think that might be going a little far.

We love this baby crib with storage underneath. Check it out!

It's almost time to break out those bare arms with springtime pants suits. Check out these beauties for expectant moms.

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Talk Back: Who Can Beat McCain? Hillary or Barack?

2008-02-13T12:57:00.005-05:00

After yesterday's commanding win in Maryland, Virginia, and the District of Columbia Obama now has the lead for the Democratic nomination even when you factor in superdelegates. And, according to MSNBC's political director Chuck Todd, Hillary Clinton will have to win by a margin of 57% in the remaining primaries in order to win. No matter the margins needed to win, or holding onto momentum, the race is far from over.

Our question today is: Who do you think will best match up against McCain? Why?

Special Health Post: HIV Facts

2008-02-08T07:20:00.000-05:00

HIV PREVENTION FACTS
Written by Jolie (www.jolie-magazine.com) and TruthAids (www.truthaids.org):

1) Yesterday (2/7/08) was Black HIV/AIDS Awareness Day! Check out www.blackaidsday.org to learn more.

2) HIV testing is part of routine health care.

3) To find nearest HIV testing site, text your zip code and send to: "KNOWIT"

4) Over half of new HIV infections are a result of the 25% of people who do not know their status.

5) Choose yourself.

6) The most common presenting symptom of an STI is no symptom.

7) Do you know your partner's status? Ask today.

8) Rap-it-up!

9) Get involved. NYC AIDS Walk is coming up May 18, 2008. http://www.aidswalk.net/newyork/

10) Make a doctor's appointment today.

About Dr. Mehret Mandefro

Dr. Mehret Mandefro is Founding Director of TruthAIDS (www.truthaids.org), a physician, public health practitioner and advocate who has worked with HIV infected and affected communities in Botswana, South Africa, and Ethiopia on issues of: access to treatment, stigma, health care worker educational training and community based public health education efforts.

Mehret recently completed her internal medicine Primary Care residency at Montefiore Hospital, in the South Bronx, and is now a Robert Wood Johnson Health and Society Scholar at the University of Pennsylvania. Her work is the subject of a feature-length documentary that explores the heterosexual transmission of HIV in the African Diaspora and is scheduled for upcoming independent film release. She received her BA and medical degree from Harvard University and her Masters of Science in the Public Health of Developing Countries from the London School of Hygiene and Tropical Medicine as a Fulbright Scholar.

Avoiding Preterm Birth, Health Care Disparities for Children, Breastfeeding News Then and Now, Hillary Clinton's Five Million Dollar Loan

2008-02-07T14:24:00.000-05:00

It's always a good idea to treat yourself to a little extra something from time to time. The next time you're on the hunt to give yourself a boost we recommend trying a new lip color. It will transform your look and your attitude. We recommend finding your special color at Sephora.com.

Here's what's new today on MommyToo.com

Did you know breastfeeding controversies have literally been the same for thirty years. See the similarities.

Research confirms minority children are given less adequate health care than whites. See how this affects black and brown children throughout the country.

Find our new sales picks at LizClaiborne.com.

Mama Noire weighs in on Hillary Clinton's five million dollar loan to her own campaign. Read why this is a sign her campaign is on the ropes.

Preterm birth is a major problem in the black community. Discover health information from the March of Dimes.

Meet Terri Williams, a mom of two living in Charlotte, NC.

Join Terri on the Mommy Too! Network.

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Yes We Can!

2008-02-07T09:47:00.001-05:00

If you haven't seen this video please take a moment to be inspired even more by Obama's message. Amazing.

Meet Other Expecting Moms, Children and Cholesterol, Breastfeeding History, PBS Kids Celebrates Black History

2008-02-06T08:36:00.000-05:00

Remember when you were pregnant for the very first time? It was a little scary, wasn't it? We're sure you had questions about your pregnancy and wanted to know everything about having a healthy baby.

Right now, there are moms in our pregnancy group who would like to talk to mothers about pregnancy and motherhood. Won't you join the Mommy Too! Network and share your pregnancy advice with them?

Here's what brewing on MommyToo.com today

Take a look at this picture. It's our take on breastfeeding at work.

Did you know that children as young as two should get regular screenings for cholesterol even of they're not overweight? Find out why.

Check out PBS Kids shows and air dates that celebrate Black History month.

Mama Noire breaks down Super Tuesday. She says, "If I were the Clinton camp I would be really nervous because the Obama train isn't stopping. Sure Hillary won California and New York. Did they notice how many states Obama racked up?"

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Meet Javine. She's expecting her first baby!

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Super Tuesday Draws Near, Mommy Makeovers, Hershey Park, Harmful Baby Products, Must-Haves for Expectant Moms

2008-02-04T12:58:00.000-05:00

For those of you who missed the rally for Barack Obama yesterday you missed a great event! Held at UCLA and drawing celebrities like Oprah, Stevie Wonder, and Maria Shriver, thousands of Obama supporters had a lot to cheer about and gained even more enthusiasm going into Super Tuesday. Want to see the whole rally? Click here.

Here's what's going on at MommyToo.com today.

Have you heard about the widely-popular mommy makeovers? Would you get a breast lift to to perk up your former breastfeeding breasts or get a tummy tuck to hide your post-pregnancy flab? Tell us and take our poll.
Consumer products like baby powders and lotions have been found to be harmful to infants. Discover why you should stop using these products now!
Hershey Resorts in Pennsylvania is a great family destination. Check out the latest promotions and discounts for summer family travel.
There are a ton of mom bloggers out there. See why Mama Noire, one of the most well-known mom bloggers, authors a blog even after four years.
Belly oils are perfect for expanding baby bumps. See the belly oil we recommend this week.

What Do You Think About Garnishing Wages for Health Coverage?

2008-02-03T12:58:00.000-05:00

The days are quickly winding down to Super Tuesday and we know a lot of you live in states that will be holding primaries. Whoever you support, make sure you get out to vote because there's power in the ballot booth!

Hillary, Health Care and Garnishing Wages

Today on ABC's "This Week" Hillary Clinton admitted that she would be willing to garner wages in order for everyone to have universal health care saying, "I think there are a number of mechanisms" that are possible, including "going after people's wages, automatic enrollment."

What do you think about the government garnering your wages just so you and your family can have health care? Do you think it's fair or do you think government will be crossing over the line? Share your opinion in our comments section.

Flashback Friday, Badu On Motherhood, Adults and Breast Milk, Why You Should Take Folic Acid, Spanx for Pregnant Women

2008-02-01T12:31:00.000-05:00

We are firm believers in looking back to the past to better our lives today and to understand those generations before us. This week's Flashback Friday photo is a dress shop for blacks taken in November 1938. Discover more photos in our Flashback Friday series.

Here's what new today on MommyToo.com.

Clutch Magazine, one of our favorites, has a brand new interview with Erykah Badu. Read what she says about motherhood.

Did you know there are people who put breast milk in their coffee? Gross or acceptable?

We've long known that folic acid helps prevent birth defects, but now we know it also helps to prevent preterm birth! This is great news for black moms-to-be.

Jessica Alba told Tyra this week that she wears pregancy Spanx. Find where to get a pair.

Mama Noire was none too thrilled about last night's love-fest Democratic debate. What did you think. Were Hillary and Barack playing too nicey-nice?

Meet Maryam, a mom of two with one in the oven, from Detroit.

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Become Maryam's friend.
Visit Maryam's blog.

Don't Let Life Pass You By, Breastfeeding in Public, Food Allergy Handbook for Kids, Meet Pregnant Moms, John Edwards Drops Out

2008-01-30T09:21:00.001-05:00

Don't let life pass you by; instead be sure to take the time to stop and smell the roses and hear the birds sing. There is beauty all around you if you pause long enough to recognize it.

Chinese Proverb: A bird does not sing because it has an answer. It sings because it has a song.

Here's What's New on MommyToo.com Today

For nursing moms breastfeeding in public causes a lot of unnecessary angst. What are your thoughts about nursing in public: it should be done discreetly or let it all hang out?

Food allergies are plaguing children in record numbers these days. Learn new ways your child can still enjoy good foods without the chance of getting an allergic reaction to foods.
We love eco-baby brands. Check out this new company: BamBam Collection.

Meet a few pregnant moms in our pregnancy group.

Are you looking for a new television set for the Super Bowl? Look no further than Wal-Mart for rollback savings.

John Edwards dropped out of the presidential race today. Is this good news, bad news, or who cares?

Meet Kim, a mom of one from Los Angeles.

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Become Kim's friend.

Express Yourself, Obama Wins in S.C.,Key Endorsements, Breastfeeding News, Questions for Your Child's Pediatrician

2008-01-28T14:20:00.000-05:00

We are ardent believers in the power of words and we believe every mother should have the thrill of seeing her name in lights. That's why we are always looking to publish the words of mothers like you.

We also recommend a new site, Divine Caroline, for women who love to write or who have always wanted to write, but have always been scared to start.

Today's Stories

Barack received two key endorsements today; one from Ted Kennedy and the other from Toni Morrison.

Read the latest news about Medela, one of the biggest names in breastfeeding.

Find out the biggest questions black parents ask during their children's check-ups.

Obama Wins in S.C., Tips for Winter Weather Wear, Dismal Black Infant Mortality Rates, Maternity Savings, Share Your Breastfeeding Story

2008-01-27T08:31:00.000-05:00

After a full week of political bickering Barack Obama came out of South Carolina with a landslide victory. Our question to you is: Do you think Obama can win the Democratic nomination? Take our poll. Click here to vote if you're reading this post via a feed.

Here's what's new today on MommyToo.com

It's unbelievable to hear, but black infant mortality rates have not changed since the Civil War. Discover why.

Were you a successful breastfeeder? Share your story with other mothers who have been in your shoes or who are deciding if they should feed their infant naturally.

Mama Noire has been closely following all of the Democratic political developments. See what she has to say about the Obama win last night.

Are you looking for a sale on maternity clothes? Look no further than Lane Bryant.

The temps have been bitter cold this winter. Read these clothing suggestions to keep you and your kids warm this season.

Moms Speak: Velvet Woodly Gives Advice to Moms

2008-01-26T09:36:00.000-05:00

You are the backbone of the family and your job never ends. Don't feel guilty if you can't be super woman. I never realized just how hard the job of being a mom actually was until I became one. I was never very sympathetic to other moms and thought most made a lot of excuses. I also was hard on my own mom for what I thought she could have done differently. I now know that most do the best they can and know how with what they are given. Everything my mom did was what she thought was best at the time. She is only a human being. I finally realized just how much of a blessing it was to have a mom and one who was there and cared. I am now a woman and mom who is doing the best I can and know how with what I am given. My daughter is a blessing in my life and I thank God for the opportunity to be a blessing in her life. Moms, don't ponder over the mistakes and it is OK that you can't do it all. Just embrace and enjoy the journey of being a mom. - Velvet Woodly

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Friday Flashback, C-Section Dangers, Black Obesity and Aggressive Marketing, Race Politics

2008-01-25T05:24:00.001-05:00

Segregation was an extremely damaging institution, one that continues to shape America even today. The Democratic presidential race seems to have picked the scab off of latent racism that still festers. Here is a shoe store catering to blacks in Chicago, Illinois April 1941. See more Flashback Friday photos.

Here's what's new on MommyToo.com

We were disgusted by this photograph by international artist, Vanessa Beecroft. Are we being too sensitive or does it scream exploitation to you as well?

Black children are among some of the most obese children in the nation, ranking just behind Hispanic children. Researchers now believe childhood obesity is caused by aggressive marketing. See if your family has fallen into the fast-food marketing trap.

We love these plush toys for babies and toddlers and love the price even more!

C-Sections are increasing among pregnant women, but they're not always safe. Learn why.

Remember this week, Hillary Clinton blasted Barack Obama for having dealings with a slum landlord, Rezko, in inner city Chicago? Seems like Hillary and Bill met him once themselves. Oops! Read more from Mama Noire's mom-blog.

Save an EXTRA 25% at Macy's weekend sale. Find great products at fabulous prices.

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Infant Formula Companies Address Congress, Picking a Limo for Prom Season, Baby Resources, Meek Speaks About Her Pregnancy

2008-01-23T17:21:00.001-05:00

According to the CDC 33 percent of first marriages end within 10 years and 43 percent end within 15 years. Divorce is not good for mothers, fathers, children, or families so we urge you to keep your marriage or relationship with your mate solid, healthy and happy.

One way to stay out of the divorce doldrums is to simply communicate with your spouse or mate. Ask him how his day was and show genuine interest in him and in the things he loves to do. Be kind. Be happy. Be sexy.

Today on MommyToo.com

Did you know harmful chemicals are found in the cans of infant formula? Manufacturers of infant formula answered questions about babies' safety today before a congressional committee.

We think the March of Dimes is an extremely important organization to help pregnant moms and preemie babies. See why we recommend their brand-new site for babies.

We love to read Meek's pregnancy blog. Read what she says about being pregnant again.

Do you have a teen who is looking forward to the prom? We have tips for hiring a limo for the big day.

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Progressive Workplace Policies for Mothers, Pregnancy Health, Green Kids, Read for Less

2008-01-22T14:44:00.000-05:00

It's important to have the healthiest pregnancy possible in order to ensure the health of your baby as well as your own well-being. We list the top ten cities to have a baby, fifty tips for a healthy pregnancy as well as tips to prevent preterm delivery.

What's New on MommyToo.com Today

Working mothers have to go through a lot including the rigors of balancing work and motherhood. But life is always a little better for mothers when their employer has progressive workplace policies for women. Read about Washington Mutual's favorable policy for breastfeeding mothers.

Did you know children are also getting in on the "green" movement? Read how your child can too.

Buy books for less. Check out our Mama's Shopping blog for book savings.

Mama-Noire is happy Barack Obama finally came out swinging in the debate last night. What do you think? Do you think Barack's performance helped or hurt him?

Join the Mommy Too! Network. Meet moms, make friends.

We're looking for mom bloggers. Find out how you can write for us.

Honoring MLK, The Caffeine-Miscarriage Connection, Successful Breastfeeding, Baby Buys, Win a $25,000 Room Renovation

2008-01-21T06:11:00.001-05:00

We hope you take a moment to sit down with your children and talk about the memory and legacies of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. (January 15, 1929-April 4, 1968) and all of those leaders who put their lives on the line for freedom and justice. We recommend these online educational resources: The King Center, PBS, The Martin Luther King Research Institute, NobelPrize.org.

"Life's most persistent and urgent question is, 'What are you doing for others?" -MLK, Jr.

What's New on MommyToo.com Today

Were you a successful breastfeeder? Share your story.

Win a $25,000 room renovation from Kimberly-Clark. Find out how you can win.
Researchers have identified a link between caffeine consumption and miscarriages. See how much caffeine is safe.

Save on baby products! Check out our baby sales and coupons.

Smell great for Valentine's Day. Discover scentsational sales at TheBodyShop.com.

Mama Noire, while excited for Barack's chances in South Carolina this week, is nervous about the debates tonight. How do you think Obama will do during the CNN debates?

Photographs:
Left: Martin Luther King press conference, 1964 Mar. 26.
Middle: Martin Luther King and Malcolm X waiting for press conference, 1964 March 26
Right: Coretta Scott King at the Democratic National Convention, New York City, 1976 Jul. 13.

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